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Time Heals!

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Every life has a period of trauma and a dark side which we conceal with thick layers of non-disclosure emotions. In a certain period of our lives, certain incidents we encounter, certain things we feel and experience will leave us a permanent impact.    Once we face a hard time in our lives we tend to think it is impossible to move on.  Hard to smile once again and there is no life ahead. We always expect what’s ‘Next’ in the line of trouble. What’s the ‘Next’ trial life has stored in for us. But what we don’t understand is, we often attract what we expect, what we prepare our mind for. If our lives have taken a U-Turn to an unexpected route filled with thunders and storms, believe over the corner there is another turn which leads to sunshine. Trust me, with time pain, gets better. You will learn the art of tolerating pain. You will know how to weep deep inside your heart and think of progress from your mind. Losing a family member is horrible, falling out...

Love is Beautiful

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We all have heard Love is Beautiful. Love makes us complete. Love gives us hope for a wonderful life. And yes! It truly does. But this beautiful love story is different than the usual. This love welcomes everyone to its fold. Embraces anyone who wants to be loved. Yes! This amazing love story is between a True Believer and Allah, the Almighty. When you love Allah, the Almighty there is no betrayal, no heartaches, there is absolutely no competition. When you’re sad and needed someone to hear your desperate pleas, you place your head down the ground and start whispering what broke your heart, shed oceans of tears in a silent plea and ask for solace. The beauty of this moment is, what you secretly whispered to the ground is heard up in the heaven and you find peace and solution.  The love of Almighty is such that, He never rejects what you asked from Him. Out of utmost love Allah has for you, He answers your desperate pleas in 3 different ways, Yes, here is wha...

Indeed 2018 is a remarkable year!

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A year can do a lot of changes and 2018 proved it right. We all smiled, cried, got frustrated, depressed, felt happiness, sadness, celebrated success, joy yet we all survived 2018. Family and Friends – with the changes 2018 brought to life, made a significant change in ‘Our People’ list. Some understood life happens at the most unexpected time and helped to deal with it and some blamed us for the change and vanished in the midst. Indeed 2018 taught us to cherish the people who stood by us when the times are tougher and stay away from the people who toxin our existence. Personal life – some found the true calling of their lives and some lost the purpose of living. Some had to make tough decisions to let go of the ones whom they dreamt of infinity and some had to hold on to their affairs of life to give it another chance. Indeed 2018 taught us to face life as it is and be grateful and do justice for the second chances life granted us in this year. Career – some ...

Rise High As a Knight, My Lady!

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Oh, My Lady! Who sits there fragile and broken, drenched in tears and denial, drained with false hopes and hollow promises, collapsed with fear, heartache, and loss – I was one of you, I know you, I feel you. I know how hard it is to come out of the fear of rejection, failure and the screeching pain which your heart endure every single day. Let me tell you My Lady, no matter how hard it gets, no matter how broken you are, you’re going to make out of it. I promise you. You’re going to heal and you’re going to live once again. This is not one of those empty promises which broke your heart. This is a promise of finding your own wisdom. My Lady! Remember, you are strong. You’re one rare piece of diamond. You are as hard as a rock. As soft as a butterfly. As fast as a river. Don’t you believe me? Let me make it clear. Despite the hardship going on in life, you’re breathing. You’re putting up a smile in front of your loved ones. You still have that soft corner which is ready for ...

Women are treasured in Islam

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It is said that in order to survive in this evolving world we need to change, we need to stand out for our rights. Or else we will be the next dinosaurs to vanish away from this world – says a group of women who stand for FEMINISM. So what is this feminism? What these group of feminist wants to achieve?   A deep research indicated in short that, feminism is all about having equal rights to men. Setting MEN as a standard for the liberation of women. We all know by nature all human beings are flawed, including men. Are these women in the western world, really want to benchmark their standard to another flawed human species?   True that no woman should be oppressed. No woman deserves to be ill-treated.   No woman needs to live in the fear of rejection because of their gender. Women are wonderful humans. Beautiful creatures of God. The Holy Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) stated: "Treat women well, for they have been created from a rib.   The rib is most curved ...

Are you ready for a Legacy Death?

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Yes, we all live once and we want to live that to our fullest.   We love to enjoy and want to explore the best, life can give us. It really sounds excellent and if we get to live the life we dream of, then yes it’s going to be incredible. A dream come true life is a dream of everyone’s life. When a child is born, the parents plan the entire lifetime of the child. The clothes to wear, birthday celebrations, school life, education and career path to every single detail of the child was planned by parents, relatives and the society. Little they knew when the child grows up, the needs grow too. Children take their own path and they have their own plans for their life. So basically everyone plans their legacy life. But often we forget that we are not assured of life. We are not guaranteed we will live till next year, month, day, hour, second…. Nope... We really don’t know. The only thing which is assured in our life was death. Any moment, death can conquer us. Any moment can be ou...

Handling Personal Crisis Moments

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Everyone in this world goes through rough patches where it would break our lives into a number of pieces we never thought it would break and at a time like that most of us would want to bury ourselves in a dark room filled with loneliness and weep the abyss out of us. It is indeed hard to come out of our shell and serve even a plate full of food which is needed for the day. Anger, Stress, Depression would creep into us and things get eventually worst when the solutions for the problems are far away from us or when we don't even see the light at the end of the tunnel. The strength of the relationships with our loved ones gets thinner and thinner every passing day. These struggles are not easy.   Their sorrows can take deep root in our brain and result in many mental and physical instabilities. So are these struggles worth it? Would it make any sense in our lives in the long run? When you're faced with a calamity all you have to do it to PAUSE. Yes, you have to pause to ...